Milestones… When I think of her accomplishments in my mind, I don’t imagine them as mile markers on a highway. Instead I imagine weathered, old stone markers along a back road somewhere. We ride together in the back of an old pickup with her dog Blue, taking in the sights and sounds of the country. […]

Fate brings us back to ourselves. It is maddening to wait for news. News of a medical test; news of a job offer; news of someone’s safe arrival in bad weather. Humans want a win every damn time. Game on! But success and failure are often out of our control. Even happy news like gender […]

Sometimes a body of work is not planned but grows out of nowhere. A tiny seed. Much like an embryo. Here is one of those bodies… [wpvideo G2SMhYAE ] “How do we deconstruct the biology of our sexuality and transform?” Live life. Celebrate life. “Is that which transpires in between worth the fight?” Yes. Yes […]

  Voyage of Discovery Marcel Proust – “The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeing new landscapes but in having new eyes.”   Examining anything from a new perspective requires an openness to what could be, not just what already is. When we are struggling, life can feel limiting and narrow, overwhelming and complicated […]